“I am what I am an’ I’m not ashamed. ‘Never be ashamed,’ my ol’ dad used ter say, ‘there’s some who’ll hold it against you, but they’re not worth bothern’ with.’”
-Rubeus Hagrid, Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire
First off, how many of you recognized the quote the moment you started reading it? Granted, it’s not one of the most popular Harry Potter quotes out there, but it’s important all the same. And while we’re on the subject, I’d just like to say that Rubeus Hagrid is one of the most underrated characters in the Harry Potter universe. Twice as tall as the average man and nearly five times as wide, he can be quite intimidating at first sight. But we all know that his outward appearance is proportional to the size of his heart; he is perhaps the warmest and most sentimental of all the HP characters. He was much more than Harry’s personal chauffeur; he was a father figure, a reliable friend, and, many a time, the trio’s primary source of information (oops… I should not have said that).
But, I digress. Coming back to the quote- those of you who did recognize it, take a bow (actually, bowing would be a bit tedious, how about a virtual high five instead?). Now to address a pressing question; why this quote? Firstly, because I’m writing this last minute (you all know the feeling) and I ended up scouring the internet and picking the first thing that seemed doable. Secondly, because now is a time when the saying is more relevant than ever. It’s the start of a new term and some of us have only just arrived at planet I, and are beginning a whole new chapter in our lives. And that means – you guessed it – meeting new people and making new friends (a shout out to all the introverts – just hang in there). This quote serves as a reminder to all of us to just be ourselves, no matter how afraid we might be of being judged or not fitting in; and likewise, to accept others the way they are. It takes a lot of courage to be yourself and be different regardless of people’s opinions; but it helps to remember that chocolate is and always will be better than vanilla and those who have an opposing view are probably crazy (and not in a good way). (To all the vanilla lovers, it’s just a metaphor; please don’t come after me with sticks). So whether you are eight and a half feet tall or just have an unusual interest in dragons, be proud of who you are and don’t be afraid to show it. Be open to all the weirdos around you. And if someone walks in on you practicing your Tibetan throat singing and turns heel and runs the other way, don’t worry, they weren’t cool enough to be friends with you anyway.
-Prathusha Dinesh